All you need is a spatula to turn your partner on in the bedroom

Seduction techniques straight from the cosmos

Sex, at least for women, is a minimum three-step routine: First, you set the mood; then comes foreplay—hopefully, enough of it; and finally, the main act.

Unfortunately, many people overlook step one entirely and skip straight to step two or three. The fact is, being versed in the sensual arts is a valuable skill that helps create anticipation, build sexual tension and turn up the heat in the bedroom. You can start by learning your partner’s love language, and over time, work your way up towards understanding what really drives them wild.

And just in case you need cosmic assistance in this pursuit, we sought the advice of astrologer, tarot priestess and medium Zohra Shakti, also known as Woodstock Witch. She shares her insights on the unique turn-ons of each zodiac sign—from creative role-play to nerdy Excel sheets (Capricorns, we see you)—while others might prefer using unexpected household items for pleasure. So, whether you’re dealing with a bold, passionate Aries or a deep and intense Scorpio, here’s your guide to seducing your partner according to their zodiac sign:

How to turn your partner on according to their zodiac sign

Fire Signs

There’s a spark about the action-oriented fire signs, who make sex more pleasurable with their creativity. They’re open-minded and encouraging, which makes them smokin’ hot.

Aries : Dress for the part

The first sign of the zodiac, Aries prioritises desire in the bedroom—attraction and chemistry are key for them. “If you want to seduce an Aries, you have to look the part,” says Shakti. “Wear something sexy, lead with your body.” If your Aries partner fancies a lacy dress and bold lip, it might be time to pull out that little black dress hibernating at the back of your closet. But if they prefer you dressed down in oversized sweatpants and a messy bun, let’s just say you’re in luck—just step into your everyday pyjamas and let your natural charm sweep them off their feet.

Leo : Dial up the drama

The sign of royalty and opulence, Leos love grand gestures and showing off their partner. As attention-seekers of the zodiac, nothing turns them on more than a partner who knows how to hold their own beside them. “Leos would also want their partners to play the part,” adds Shakti. “If they’re a king or the queen, they’d certainly want their partner to look like royalty too.” Roll out the red carpet for your Leo on date night—think truckloads of lilies or orchids, a private orchestra, a stunning seaside restaurant booked out just for the two of you. It’ll set the mood for the night. And don’t forget to compliment their hair—it’s always about the hair with these lions.

Sagittarius : Discover a new fantasy

The third fire sign, Sagittarius is an adventure junkie that always has their Indiana Jones hat on. Driven by an insatiable need for thrills, Shakti explains that Sagittarians don’t look for frivolous connections; they seek a companion for their adventures. Perhaps you want to role-play as two astronauts stuck in space or as archaeologists getting intimate while uncovering an ancient civilisation—whatever is your Sag partner’s exploratory fantasy, dive into it for a passionate night.

Air Signs

Known sapiosexuals, air signs need an intellectual connection to feel the heat in the bedroom as well.

Gemini : Bring on the banter

“The twins are the flirts of the zodiac. Humour, wit and charm are key to enticing a Gemini,” says Shakti. The first air sign often flirts for sport, so if you have a Gemini partner, their idea of foreplay might involve intellectual discussions on the origins of a potato or the word “flabbergasted,” with plenty of banter and shameless flirting. Take the decision-making off their hands for date night and whisk them away to an experiential outing—whether it’s dinner by the sea or simply trying out a new cuisine—and they’ll be charmed. Just one note: don’t let the conversation fall flat.

Libra : Craft a vibe

Librans are die-hard romantics, but they’re not fans of grand displays of love. “They don’t like drama or extreme gestures. So with a Libra partner, you have to be more balanced,” explains Shakti. The easiest way to turn a Libra on is by being expressive in a soft, aesthetic way, employing tactics that appeal to their low-key heart. Consider creating a romantic and sensual atmosphere with mood lighting, scented candles, their favourite food and intimate conversation. These signs are grade-A yappers, so you might need to silence them with some passionate kissing.

Aquarius : Let your freak show

“Is somebody gonna match my freak?” is the eternal question plaguing the mind of Aquarians. If you can entertain and engage with their eccentric passions—like conspiracy theories about the Bermuda Triangle—you’ll have your Aquarius partner in a sweet spot. “They’re a bit quirky and would appreciate a partner who’s willing to be quirky and think out of the box with them,” says Shakti. Explore sexual fantasies or kinks with your Aquarian partner and they’ll be down to try something new, as long as it breaks free from convention.

Water Signs

The sensitive Seemas of the zodiac, water signs are highly attuned to their partner’s needs and desire a deep emotional connection.

Cancer : Get hands-on

These ocean babies are known for being nurturing and protective of themselves and their loved ones. They love getting cosy with their partner and are highly sensitive to physical touch. The best way to turn on your Cancerian partner is to plan a date night at home and choose from an arsenal of romantic physical gestures. Cuddling, gentle caressing and light touches can get them in the mood faster than making a packet of two-minute Maggie noodles.

Scorpio : Explore the unusual

“They have a bad reputation for being intense, but Scorpio values physical intimacy. And with the right partner, they’re happy to be unconventional and radical,” explains Shakti. Scorpios revel in mystery and suspense, and a slow buildup of sexual tension can send their desire meter soaring. Dirty talking, dirty dancing and experimenting with unconventional sex toys could really do the trick for your Scorpion partner. Think dupattas, spatulas, belans, bananas, cucumbers—anything freaky and fun.

Pisces : Rhyme like a romantic

If you’ve been thinking of taking a pottery class, now’s the time. A Piscean would love to get their hands dirty while creating some art. The final sign of the zodiac, they’re dreamy, whimsical and have rose-tinted glasses on most of the time. To turn on these water babies, you must lean into their romanticism. Morph into Rupi Kaur if you must. “Seduce them with poetry or prose that would touch their heart. Or watch a film from the genre they enjoy,” explains Shakti.

Earth Signs

Practical and grounded, earth signs thrive on physical touch and acts of service—folding their laundry? That’s hot.

Taurus : Lay out a sensual treat

If people came with a tagline, Taureans would be:“Aur khaane mein kya hai?” Lovers of leisure and pleasure, Taureans enjoy indulging in all manner of sensual delights, especially food—whether it’s motichoor laddoo or coq au vin. “It’s all about the finer things in life,” explains Shakti. “You can woo them by taking them out to a Michelin-star restaurant, where they can savour great food, dress up, wear jewellery and perfume.”

Virgo : Take it slow

Why listen to poetry when you can check five tasks off your to-do list? That’s a glimpse into a Virgo’s mind. Grounded and pragmatic, nothing will turn on your Virgo partner more than an act of service, like cutting their to-do list in half. Virgos are also very methodical, so don’t even think of skipping foreplay. Some sensual pappiyaan- jhappiyaan and a long session of sensory play with different textiles and materials will surely heighten the intimacy with your Virgo partner.

Capricorn : Get down to business

The last of the earth signs, Capricorns are work-loving goats who love being in control. They also view sex as a way to release steam, so the best way to seduce them is by enticing them into a quickie during work breaks through the day, leaving them wanting more. This is also a sign that respects their partner taking the lead in the bedroom, so consider experimenting with sex toys (here’s a guide on how to find the right one for you) that put both of you in control of the other’s pleasure.